I think Twitter really ought to get some sort of disclaimer on its site. A mandatory Terms and Agreements page that prepares you for the experience; WARNING: You are about to witness some extremely i’gnant shit.  So when that moment comes and you find yourself staring at your timeline in a blank stupor and suffer a subsequent nervous breakdown triggered by the sudden realization that this generation has the combined I.Q of a hamster–you can’t sue anybody.

It may have very well spared me the countless mental meltdowns that’ve occurred since my joining; including (but not limited to) being subjected to hashtags like #HoesOutHereShapedLike, #CelebritiesWhoLookLikeTheyStank, and of course, #WhatMakesABlackGirlMad.

I know what you’re thinking. The last doesn’t look all that bad. Hell, it could even be an opportunity for young people to discuss the social, political, and economic issues specific to black women lives, right?

Wrong. You obviously don’t know how this works.

Hashtags serve two purposes: 1.) Giving tweeters yet another opportunity to post pictures of their schlongs, and 2.) Giving the green light to political incorrectness and stupidity. It’s like every time you see that little pound sign next to those conjoined words a little timer goes off: Ding! TIME TO BE AN ASSHOLE.

So, naturally, the most popular response to #WhatMakesABlackGirlMad was some variation of “getting her weave wet”, (followed closely by some variation of “seeing a black man with a white girl”).

Yeah. I know. I don’t want to talk about it, either.

I do, however, want to retroactively delete all of those tweets and replace them with the ideas of People With Active Brain Cells, thus:


1.) Having the ethnic features that made us “ugly” be considered beautiful on the bodies on white women.

2.) Having our entire self-worth contingent on the size of our asses.

3.) Black Female rappers who gain notoriety only by degrading each other.

4.) That no one on Fox news calls President Obama, “president Obama”.

5.) That Rush Limbaugh is still alive.

6.) That “Basketball Wives” has been renewed for a 5th season.

7.) Everything Tyler Perry has ever written.

8.) That the idea of natural hair is still considered part of some alternative lifestyle.

9.) That we have the highest rates of obesity, cancer, diabetes, and HIV/AIDS.

10.) Knowing that we are still the second lowest wage earning group in the country.

11.) That we have among the highest rates of both domestic abuse and rape, most of them unreported.

12.) That “Bitch” is a compliment now.

13.) That people are STILL denying that Trayvon Martin’s death was a case of racial profiling.

14.) That some civil rights activists still fail to acknowledge issues of gender or homosexuality within the black community.

What makes us really mad is the idea that we can’t express legitimate frustrations about the these issues that effect our daily lives without “having an attitude”.

But getting our “weaves wet”? Not so much.

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3 thoughts on “#WhatMakesABlackGirlMad

  1. nerogrey says:

    It is funny I have a twitter account and don’t tweet because of the reasons you stated. I enjoy reading the people I follow but I am in no mood for someone to come across a tweet I make and turn ignoramus and find myself going off and getting mad at someone I don’t know who is hiding behind a tweet. I refuse to let someone upset me to that level therefore no tweeting unless it is someone I know personally. BTW, I totally agree with #1 on your list!!

  2. alysonmiers says:

    I learned my lesson on Trending Topics when I took a gander at #ThingsBlackGirlsDo. It was even worse than #ThingsWomenDontDoAnymore, which is saying something. Since then I’ve learned to stay the heck away from TTs.

  3. On point post as usual. In an alternate reality, your list would be among the top tweets of things that really make black women mad. But of course, we are surrounded by masses of crazy asses.

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